Enneagram Blueprint

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Loved it--it confirmed that I picked the right wife! Phew!

So fun!! Took the assessment and was told I'd be a good match with a 5 and a 3. I've dated lots of 3s but not 5s, and I liked what I was reading about their brainy approach and dedication to their crafts. Gonna start going to some local book and gaming meetups to see if I can meet them. I also really appreciated how in the guide, you gave in a human way, the pros and cons of dating each type, which lets me get a holistic idea of what they'd be like as a partner. You guys rock!

the “objectivity” section made me tear up. it’s easy to see curiosity as cold, but this showed me it’s a form of love — a way of connecting with truth itself.

instead of shaming threes, it highlights the gift we bring when healthy—motivation, clarity, hope. i felt lighter after reading.

It made my family smile too. My mom read the “You will be taken care of” childhood message and got teary. She said, “That’s exactly what you needed to hear as a kid.”

It tells the truth: we can be intense, dominating, and exhausting—but also courageous, protective, and loyal. No pandering, just honesty with hope.

A colleague of mine always insists on doing things “the right way” and I used to think he was being controlling. After reading this, I realized that it’s a deep sense of integrity driving him. I’ve started appreciating his perspective instead of pushing back.

This deserves to be in every therapist’s office. It’s such a nuanced take on how people love, fear, and connect.

I loooove them they are so beautiful

I got this out of curiosity for my own relationship (I’m a 9, my partner is a 3). I really liked that it wasn’t just fluff—it used actual data plus explanations of why these pairings tend to work (or struggle). It’s clear the authors have a deep understanding of the Enneagram.

Underrated? The Enneagram. Also underrated? Cats. Triple underrated? High quality fabric stickers. We are 3 for 3 here...

A lot of Enneagram materials make 2s seem pretty basic: "we want love, we're insecure," yadda yadda and I kind of resent it. Blueprint has the first field guide that makes me proud to be a 2. They understand we have so many layers that people don't see. That we're brave as hell in times of need. That we are leaders of groups, that we are heralds of important information, that we are action-oriented and practical. I felt seen and appreciated while STILL having some really good stuff to wo...
Great for self-reflection,I read this when I was going through a rough patch. It really helped me see why I was so exhausted all the time — trying to keep everyone happy and forgetting myself. The advice about setting boundaries and asking for help was a game changer."

This guide really nails the complexity of Type 5s. As a 5 myself, I appreciated how it explained our need for knowledge without making it sound like just "nerdy hoarding." It helped me understand my own drive better and why I sometimes pull back from people.

I’m not a 4, but my sister is, and sometimes I don’t understand her massive moody amplitude shifts between happy and hurricane. This guide helped me see it’s not just drama — it’s deeper feelings and identity searching. It gave me patience and some ideas on how to support her better without taking things personally.