Enneagram Relationship Report
Enneagram Relationship Report
What we know to-date about the frequency and likelihood of two Enneagram types forming a long-term relationship. Our report provides insight into why two types might choose one another, using our theoretical knowledge, qualitative and quantitative data, and first-hand experience with certain type pairings. The analysis includes roughly 1,000 couples from various means of collecting data over many years.
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Solid summary about romantic preferences. I’ll use pieces of it.
This deserves to be in every therapist’s office. It’s such a nuanced take on how people love, fear, and connect.
I got this out of curiosity for my own relationship (I’m a 9, my partner is a 3). I really liked that it wasn’t just fluff—it used actual data plus explanations of why these pairings tend to work (or struggle). It’s clear the authors have a deep understanding of the Enneagram.
Basically reaffirming MOST of my suspicions about which personality types are/aren't good for me...
I expected charts and got philosophy, psychology, and design all in one. It’s visually beautiful but the ideas behind it are even better.